Anonymous asked: How do you stopp missing someone?

My dear friend, 
I’ll be honest with you, I don’t believe you ever stop missing someone.
When in time, you know that person is no longer around, you miss them for when they were, for who they were, and what was what.
But with each day, after many days of our hearts aching for what is lost, we allow ourselves to accept, not forget.
I think it’s important to not let go of something that has made your heart pull in such a way, whether it was Love lost, or a passing of a good soul. The pulling itself is something so precious and beautiful.
Our heart pulls because that will always remain, and when you think you’re  on your two feet again, you allow yourself to revisit that thought of them just to feel that again, to remember and to love once more, even when we think we don’t want to.

So what we should desire is to not stop, but to understand.
Wherever it is the one you’re missing is, understand the love you had for them.
Let the Love cradle in your arms, and let it make you smile.
It’s okay to say Goodbye, and it’s okay to reminisce too. 

When you feel safe in this thought, you know that you can finally be okay too. 
Give yourself time my friend, and your wounds will heal.

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